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  • Grab Your FREE YouTube Video Production + Distribution Checklist

    Hey YouTube friend! Whether you’re just starting out with your YouTube channel or if you’re using this checklist to organise your current content creation process. I can’t wait to see your super organised, done correctly, new and fantastic content going forward using this handy checklist! It’s going to make your production process so much more streamlined. Because using this checklist is doing just that for my small and new channel! I think anyone can get monetized on YouTube with a good strategy - no matter what their age. What their starting point. What tech they start with. Or what their niche is. I'm on a personal growth mission and my"helping other mums and dad's that feel stuck crusade"(because I was that person - and now I genuinely want to help show people another way of escaping the 9-5 rat race that is keeping us trapped, unhealthy and depressed!)... to show you how to grow your own channel from zero up to reach the holy grail of monetization. And I'm sharing EVERYTHING here on this blog that is helping me grow or helped me grow my channel. At the time of writing I'm at 270 subscribers and just 5 weeks into my own growth journey that's over 25% towards starting to earn on YouTube. In just 5 small weeks! (You can check back in from time to time to see how I'm doing and I hope the numbers inspire you into action). Stick around and I'll share my exact method AND my first paycheck from YouTube as soon as I reach that milestone! But in week 5 of My YouTube Growth journey from zero -1k subs , I realised that I needed to get my business head on when thinking about my YouTube channel for it to grow in the way I wanted (and start earning from it!) and also to set me up with good Content Creator habits early on. Weeks 1-4 I was kind of all over the place just trying to ensure I stuck to my targets of actually filming, editing and uploading. Now is the time to get a content strategy and structure in place. So if you can relate to this too - let's get organised together! This check list ensures that not only do I create videos in an intentional and confident way, but that I distribute and market them in a methodical way too to get the most from every video that I create. There’s so much to do and think about when creating your YouTube video's, but this list will ensure that you’ve left no stone unturned when it comes to making your next video a success. And ensure that you enjoy creating in a more focused and organised way. If YouTube rewards consistency - we want to make sure that we take out all the stress and overwhelm , to ensure we turn up week after week on this growth journey that we're on to monetization. If we are to grow - we need to turn up and not give up! Get Yours Here: My FREE YouTube Video Checklist for Production and Distribution of Video's For Growth (Note: This is a digital product - a PDF for you to download and print off as many times as you like for each video that you create. On clicking here, you will be taken to my website which will allow you to add to basket and checkout in the usual way. BUT NO MONEY WILL BE CHARGED FOR YOUR FREE CHECKLIST NOW OR EVER. Just so you know! But you do have to checkout to access the free file. This is the same for all my free or paid for products. This checklist won't always be free so get yours today) I really hope this video creator checklist helps you. Share your channel page in the comments below and tell me a bit about yourself. This is an excellent way to help Google SEO for your channel too! In the meantime keep up with our daily Bali life updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • Embracing the Journey: The Power of Starting

    When you think about the monumental impact of YouTube, it’s hard to believe that the very first video— “Me at the Zoo” — was just 18 seconds long and featured co-founder Jawed Karim standing in front of elephants. It’s simple, unpolished, and, frankly, not that exciting. Yet, it holds a pivotal place in the history of online content. Why? Because it marks the beginning of a revolution — a reminder that every great endeavour starts somewhere, often in a very unremarkable way. We have to start somewhere. And the best place to start is right at the beginning because the growth will be even more sweeter + visible. You will look back at yourself and think " WOW I DID THAT THING! " But the key is START! START the thing. Because if not, you'll instead always think " Damn I wish I started... that thing, that business, selling digital products , that blog , that weight loss programme, that YouTube Channel (the list goes on and on for non-starters). You owe it to yourself to live the life you were truly meant to be living. But it starts with you. And starting often involves digging deep and putting yourself OUT THERE. In Unchartered territory that will often feel unfamiliar and daunting. But nothing magical ever happens in the comfort zone and if you are wanting different results: maybe you want More money, maybe you want more confidence, maybe it's a new relationship that you are looking for - then all of these new things - require action. Taking inspired action Understanding what you want (having that desire) - the taking action. The first step in action is THE START. One sure way of failure is to never start the thing. If you never start, you guarantee the end result - of nada, nothing, failure to achieve the thing. By starting, you open up a whole field of possibilities and outcomes. And quite often, that brave act of just starting, takes you in a whole different direction, but an eciting one none-the-less. Or you achieve THE VERY THING that you set out to achieve: that new job, that extra income, that new relationship. Whatever it is - it all started with a dream / goal and inspired ACTION. STARTING! The Importance of Starting In a world that celebrates perfection, it’s easy to feel paralysed by the pressure to create something extraordinary from the get-go. We scroll through Instagram and TikTok, witnessing polished videos, stunning graphics, and expertly crafted stories. This can lead to an overwhelming sense of fear and imposter syndrome, making us believe that we are not good enough to share our own voices. When I started this blog , I was scared to even write a simple blog post, through fear of pressing that publish button and worrying what people would think. I'm not that good a writer, I ramble, I'm very wordy, I can't send a simple text message, my text messages are like mini essays, I use a lot of comma's (like here) - In fact in my head, I'm so many things that I wish I wasn't and full of those horrible self doubt, negative talk thoughts that creep in with pretty much everything I do. So much so, that I was SCARED to write a meaningful post that had a little piece of me in it, because I was sacred of being judged. And so for 2 years, I didn't start this blog. Even though I knew that by the time we moved to Bali, we could have a full salary forged from earning money from blogging with this blog . But instead fear paralysed me. I wrote some blog posts that meant nothing to me, just about some former travel we'd done, that were surface level chit chat (which is just not me - I don't do small talk very well. I'm a deep chatster - all or nothing kind of girl to which my friends will attest to) and the blog posts flopped. They didn't do anything reach wise and they went nowhere. So I started. But did I really START. But here’s the truth: every creator, every innovator, every game-changer started with that first, often imperfect step. “Me at the Zoo” was never about brilliance; it was about taking action. It was the seed that planted an idea, igniting a platform that would change how we communicate and connect. We earn all of our family income ONLINE . Which only 2 years ago was not the case. We were trapped in a UK rat race that left us exhausted, with no time for our kids, time poor and still never quite earning ENOUGH after things got paid. We lost our business during covid (watch the deeply personal vid here where I talk about this for the first time). And that loss was the seed of germination for the life that we now live. This isn't a flex to show off - but it really is quite dreamy. And it all came from starting. Having our dream, and realising that now after business loss, we were further away from it than we'd ever been. Visualising a dream and taking action to make it a reality. This word again: START. We started to look at all the ways to earn online. Even at 40 was this possible? Of course it was! And still is for YOU! We looked at: Social media Landing a brand deal what you actually needed Blogging and how to make money through a blog Digital online businesses (rather than products based) Dropshipping Affiliate makerting Digital marketing learning new online skills (graphic design, copy writing anything that we could freelance from and get paid whilst travelling) And what we realised, was that anything is learnable, at no matter what age or position in life you may be. It starts with a seed. With inspired action (planting it) that seed will sprout into SOMETHING> What is your seed? And now we're living our Bali life (we did it!) , we now wanted to apply the foundational stuff that we learned in the early days (that got us here) to start something new in 2024. And here we are at my 2024 seed. To show you guys how at 41 or am I 42? I have no idea without counting backwards, which I'm not going to do. I'm of an age where people seem to 'get stuck'. Anyhow, this is my seed - Starting a YouTube channel at 40 - my first YouTube Video - the seed that will sprout into a sapling - and eventually grow into a YouTube channel that is earning us money Because we just took action. (and you can watch this journey to see where we're up to with that growth here) . Of all the stuff we learned back then. All the manifesting. All the business skills. The one thing that I can pass on today that is holding you back. IS YOU! And you're avoidance of starting. And in my case: the fear of starting and what others might think of me. But that was my fear - not on other people. Often that action of just starting - is the hardest thing you'll do on the whole journey. The rest is easy in comparison. But I promise you this: that action will be the best thing you ever did for yourself. Go show my first starting video some love - It's quite simply rubbish - but don't tell the algorithm that ;-) - give it a like and a subscribe and we can trick it into thinking I'm the best YouTuber in 2024! Mr Beast had better watch out. This video shows my guts of being completely not ready at 40 and shy, but just STARTING anyway!!!!! And what I'm trying to do with this YouTube channel is to lead by example. I want people to see the fear I'm facing, see how scared I am, feel it, channel it and use it to start their own thing today. Whether that's a new blog on their favourite hobby, or a youtube channel even though they're an introvert. Or an digital business, even though they're not that techy..... I promise to return to this post once I reach my monetization goal with YouTube to show my first months earnings to show how great STARTING it was. But of course to get there,.... you guessed it.... I had to START!! Overcoming Fear and Imposter Syndrome Fear is a natural part of the journey. Whether you’re starting a YouTube channel, writing a blog, or launching a new business, doubts will creep in. “What if I fail?” “What if no one cares?” “Who am I to do this?” I grew up with family members saying "Who did I think I was?" - it lead me to make myself smaller, to dim my light, to not want to be seen. To not want to be seen to show off or celebrate my wins. It led me to never acknowledge just how marvellous I was. Needless to say, when I started my self love journey and Shadow Work Journey 10 years or so, I removed those people from my life. Never ever dim your light! But back to the issue at hand, these negative self questions can be paralysing, but they’re also a signal that you’re stepping outside your comfort zone—an essential part of growth. Imposter syndrome thrives on comparison. It tricks you into believing that others are more deserving of success than you are. The truth is, everyone experiences it at some level. The key is to acknowledge those feelings and push through them. Embrace the fact that no one starts as an expert. With each small step you take, you’ll gain confidence, learn new skills, and discover your unique voice. With my own YouTube Channel Growth Journey, I have committed to making each video just that little bit better than the one before. A new skill learned so that each baby step of progress that I take, by the end of the process I am armed wit a whole toolbox of awesome skills that I apply to every video without even thinking. At the time of writing this (23rd Sept 2024) I have a lot to learn with editing, coming up with interesting hooks and creating my thumbnails... and that's all ok. This is a process and a learning journey. If you are feeling the same way, please don't think that you have to be perfect to start something, because you don't. Truth is, even when you are pretty darn perfect, that old negative self doubt speak will still creep in and you'll never actually be ready. So override it, tell it to F**k Off and just start the thing! Committing to Yourself Now that you've started something. The real magic happens when you make a commitment to yourself. Choose to show up, even when it’s hard. Dedicate time to your passion, whether that means creating content, starting a fitness journey, or learning a new skill. Set realistic goals though - don't overwhelm yourself with goals that are just too big to acheive - set SMART Goals that get you from A - B Celebrate the small victories and wins - they will keep you going, and remember that consistency trumps perfection. If you're going to do it. DO IT! Consistency is KEY. The YouTube Algorithm for growth rewards consistency. Reflect on the journey of countless creators who faced the same fears you do. They didn’t wait for the perfect moment; they created it through determination and persistence. By committing to yourself, you open doors to transformation. You’ll not only change your life but potentially impact others along the way. A Call to Action So, what’s stopping you? The next time fear tries to hold you back, remember Jawed Karim standing in front of those elephants. His video may not have been groundbreaking, but it was the first step in a journey that led to billions of videos and countless opportunities for others. Embrace the idea that it’s okay to start small. Your first attempts may not be perfect, but they will be significant. Don’t wait for the perfect moment—create it. Commit to your growth, and watch as you evolve in ways you never imagined. Watch my first video: I'd cried that morning with the fear of what we'd done! I didn't look my best, yet I was putting my swollen cryey face in front of the camera for the world to see. Talking about a subject that I didn't really believe anyone would want to watch. It turned out only 300 people saw that video in a world of billions, so it's not so bad. But it was the best thing that I did. People saw me at my low ebb (not my lowest - there's been way more of those ;-), But they saw me at my lowest and so the only way from there was up. That first video was more than just my first video. That video is my recorded proof and testament to me SHOWING UP for myself, OVERCOMING FEAR, the first steps in OVERCOMING IMPOSTER SYNDROME, and now that i'm on my way to monitizing my Youtbe Channel - The Importance of Starting. Remember: every expert was once a beginner. Your story is waiting to be told, and the world is ready to hear it. Start today, and let the journey unfold. In the meantime keep up with our daily updates on social media below. And let me know if there is anything specific you would like me to cover on the blog about our Bali life. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Using ChatGPT EBook

    Download The Beginners Guide to Using ChatGPT Digital EBook for FREE here to help you on your way with using Chat GPT. Life will never be the same again! This link will take you to my ECom website for you to add to basket and checkout. Completely free though. I spoke about how I use Chat GPT to help me speed up my YouTube video uploading by helping me to come up with SEO (Search Engine Optimized) YouTube video Titles and Descriptions in my week 2 video documenting my YouTube journey to getting monetized on the platform. See that video here (skip to 9:51 let's break that down so the first thing I used Chat GPT to come up with interesting Titles + Descriptions for my YouTube Videos) : You are now about to discover the The Beginners Guide to Using ChatGPT Digital E-Book here to help you on your way with using Chat GPT to enhance and speed up your business life, freeing you up to do the things you love and ultimately making you more money in the process. If you're a beginner with AI and Chat GPT, then this book is for you! Your life will literally never be the same again! My new guide shows YOU how you can use Chat GPT that's so easy to follow that even a complete beginner will come away with a deeper understanding of what Chat GPT is and how you can use Chat GPT to increase your productivity, speed up virtually every business task, come up with instant Product ideas, YouTube Titles, Hooks and Descriptions, ideas and SO MUCH MORE all at the click of a button. We get it, you are short on time , the last thing you want to do now is to trawl through the internet looking for answers to all the questions that come up day to day when running your business. There's so much information online, it's difficult to cut through all this info in a google search. Use Chat GPT to avoid all of this and get specific answers to all of your questions right now. For Free. Saving you time to get on with building your business. Whether you are a content creator, digital or products seller or service led business. Using Chat GPT will revolutionise your life. Freeing you up to create the right content, list the best selling products, create an online course to help more people and so much more and to be able to market it with the best and proven ideas that work to build your business that makes you more money! But when you don't know where to even start or grasp the basics, AI can seem daunting. I was exactly like this. But now I can not live without using Chat GPT every single day for speeding up all aspects of my business. Ultimately affecting my bottom line. I'm making so much more money in half the time, because I'm able to get the right answers to my MANY daily business questions. And I, like you, started at the very beginning, with zero knowledge about Chat GPT and if I'm completely honest, some fear on using Chat GPT. You have nothing to lose with downloading my free E Book here that will start you at the very beginning to start using Chat GPT to optimise everything about your business. Using Chat GPT reluctantly has been a game changer for me! And I want this for others who are sitting on the fence. AS I WAS!!! Not anymore I bloomin love this thing and can't tell you how it's been a game changer for my business and my earnings. Read on to see the Things I used Chat GPT for today to see how using this tool could help you raise your business game. No matter what your business is. Every business owner needs to be using ChatGPT. Because if you're not, others that are will race ahead and you cannot keep up with the pace of their business growth without it. It's like having 5 assistants doing your groundwork day in day out. ▶ WHY DO I NEED THIS? I have spent over 70 hours creating this Beginners Guide to using Chat GPT to the best version it could be so that it is easy for newbies to understand. Because I was you! I didn't 'get it' - I didn't have a clue what Chat GPT was. I was a bit of an old lady when it came to new technology. And truthfully I didn't really trust it anyway, so I stayed away. Preferring to work more hours than my counterparts that were using it. I was so stubborn that yes, I'd rather work long hours, rather than suss out a new technology. Because I ddin't know where to start! But seeing them race ahead, I knew something had to change. And I was worn out, bloody knackered and constantly chasing money. I never seemed to have enough. fast forward 1 year and I'm living the life of my dreams, earning more money than I've ever earned wit my online businesses and more than all of this: I have time and mind space to be with my kids and home school them. Once I dipped my toe into Chat GPT and saw what it could for me, it has revolutionised how I work and I want others that don't use it now, to take a look at this book. This Beginner's Guide to Using Chat GPT in your business will show you exactly how CHAT GPT can help you start, streamline and grow your business. Whether your business is a content creator on YouTube or a products based business selling goods, services or you are a blogger looking for good topics to write about, or even want the technology to write your blog posts for you. Or you simply want to learn a new skills. Chat GPT is my go to whenever I have a question, need help brainstorming ideas, marketing my business. It's like having a team of experts in your one man business that can give you solutions to any thing you need. I think every business owner / content creator or creative absolutely must start using Chat GPT to grow and keep up with everybody else that's already using it. But if you don't know how? Start with this book Today - it's completely FREE. And when you understand what Chat GPT is and what it can do for you. Chat GPT is also free to use! ▶ WHAT CAN I ACHIEVE WITH IT? - or - WHAT IS THAT SPECIAL? Things I used Chat GPT for just this morning are (and yours will likely be different but you can see my point): Creating a list of 10 YouTube video ideas around my niche subject. Creating optimized SEO Titles for those videos (that I could tweak to make perfect for my needs) Writing my video descriptions with top performing hashtags relevant for my content. Coming up with optimized thumbnail ideas that spark curiosity and get more clicks on my videos. And that was just more YouTube Channel work. In an hour window. I'll be on there more tody too. And you can use it for any business. This is just me today working on one of mine! I can now do what I do best and run my business. You will be able to do what you do best and run your business in less time, work less hours, earn more money, come up with better ideas that are proven and work at the click of a button and create a freedom life without working yourself to death achieving average or poor results for the level of effort you put in. Using Chat GPT is about working smarter, not harder. Having an expert on hand to give you the info you need instantly. And this book get's you on your way with what ChatGPT can do for you. Now, you can finally work smarter - have more time to spend doing the things you love, spending time with the kids, growing that YouTube Channel, Growing that Business or just not burning yourself out so you can see your kids grow up, be present, have more you time, earn more than you ever thought was possible making a better life for you family. Time is precious. Time will mean different things for different people. For me having more time meant working fewer hours so I can live a better and more fulfilled life can homeschool my children and live a freedom life in Bali (I still work, but it's on my terms and when it suits my life). And Chat GPT is one of the things that speeds up EVERYTHING for me. Just try it out! Click to Download Your FREE Digital Guide CHAT GPT For Beginners It's kinda magical! And of course it's free. As part of my new freedom life, I have more time to give. Giving back is my way of thanking the universe and practicing gratitude. The more people I can help just purely through sharing my hacks and tips to get off the slave journey and step into a freedom life with more abundance and happier lifestyle, then I'm doing something that I set out to do. Sharing what I know is the easiest way I can give back. This is your own personal Freedom Journey - I've got mine - Be Nothing Like creates tools that help people live their own Financial Freedom + Mental Freedom life - so take what you need. ▶ UNIQUE BONUS YOU GET WITH THIS TEMPLATE: Be Nothing Like are now offering The 50 Ways to Use Chat GPT Mini Book so you can really see exactly what ChatGPT can do. And don't miss out on it's capabilities for literally every aspect of your business/freedom life. ▶ THE BORING BITS: *SIZE: A4 PDF Booklet *MATERIALS: Digital Guide no product is physically shipped out to your address. But you will receive a digital link for this PDF booklet once you checkout. No purchase necessary or spend required but you will need to add to basket and checkout. *DIMENSIONS: 210x298mm A4 | US Letter Size *PACKAGING: Not a physical product *CONTENT: 36 Pages packed with info in a way that beginners can digest on what Chat GPT is and How it can help you grow your business Be Nothing Like is all about helping Mums to achieve Financial Freedom + Mental Freedom with Tools to empower and use to help them on their growth journey. Limited time offer. Get your FREE The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Using ChatGPT EBook here , free for my blog readers normally £9.99. You will need to add it to basket and checkout (but you won't be charged) and will get a link at checkout to access your guide straight away. I hope you found this guide helpful. Don't forget to watch the accompanying video and subscribe to my YouTube Channel for more tips for a freedom life In the meantime keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • 2 Ways To Add Chapters or Timestamps to Your YouTube Videos

    I'm growing my own YouTube Channel to be monetized as a Mum Mom of over 40 that's brand new on YouTube to show others exactly how I did it - SO YOU CAN DO IT TOO! Join my YouTube growth journey where I start from zero and grow the channel to monetization, adding another passive income pot to my own growing online income stream to ensure that I can continue living my freedom life in the sun with my family . This is the Financial Freedom part of my blog Be Nothing Like ! That I started to keep me accountable when living this way was just a dream. A very far off dream - We lost our business during covid and our whole family income you see. I'm sharing absolutely everything I know that got us here to today in less than 2 years!! Anyhow - very deep topics for another day - this blog is part of My YouTube Learning Library YOUTUBE being another amazing way to earn online that is completely free information on all of the stuff I learned and implemented on my journey and THE important information and fast learnings that new YouTubers need to Start / Grow and Monetize their own YouTube channel (even if they know nothing) - like me! I'm sharing EVERYTHING that I know and learned on my journey from Zero to 1k subscribers and beyond. So that all Mums, Moms, Families everywhere can start monetizing what they know, their passions or skills, starting their own YouTube channel and growing theirs to income! Just think of where you can be if you just start TODAY! Use all of my content in this YouTube Learning Library to start and grow your YouTube Channel today starting where you are, using what you've got and learning every day until the thing is done! Follow the below instructions to learn How To add your own video chapters to your YouTube Videos by two ways: Adding your own chapters | Adding automatic video chapters. How to Add Your Own video chapters to your YouTube Videos: Sign in to your YouTube Studio From the left menu, select Content . Click the video that you'd like to edit. In the Description, add a list of timestamps and titles. Make sure that the first timestamp you list starts with 00:00.  Your video should have at least three timestamps listed in ascending order. The minimum length for video chapters is 10 seconds.  5. Click SAVE . Watch this really quick video showing you How. ADD VIDEO LINK - for now use this helpful vid on Google How to Add automatic video chapters to your YouTube Videos: Sign in to your YouTube Studio From the left menu, select Content . Click the video that you'd like to edit. Click SHOW MORE and under Automatic Chapters select “Allow automatic chapters and key moments” . By default, this box will be checked for all new uploads. You can also allow automatic video chapters in bulk . Click SAVE . It's really important to note here: that not all videos are eligible for automatic chapters, and not all eligible videos will have automatic chapters. If the channel has any active strikes, or if the content may be inappropriate to some viewers, the video chapters feature won't be available. 3 Benefits of Adding Timestamps to Your YouTube Video Content. Adding timestamps to your videos gives viewers quick access to some important sections of your video, making the viewing experience better for them. It can also help the bounce off rate, where a viewer has been watching your video and decides to leave. With timestamps, they are able to quickly navigate to the section of your video that gives them the info they were looking for. This can keep a viewer on for longer than they would have done. When a viewer gets what they need from your video, they are more likely to subscribe and like your video as they had a problem, that you solved for them. It's a mutually beneficial transaction! Having timestamps improves SEO. I am an SEO expert and worked the last few years making sure my ecommerce website got to the top of google and stayed at the top of google (and other search engines) and so I come at this from an SEO perspective. The more that you work on your video SEO, the higher you will appear on search engines for relevant content. Higher up = more views, likes, subscribers. Timestamps help search engines understand your video content and categorize it accordingly. ADD VIDEO LINK HERE Now that you know the stuff! You can add timestamps to all of your future YouTube videos to make sure you have all the tricks and tips in your toolbox to make your YouTube journey a growth journey. If you loved this post, drop me a comment below. Also let me know if there's anything else that you have q's about as I can cover this if I know. To make this section GREAT! In the meantime keep up with my daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • The Importance of Sleep for Manifesting

    In the realm of personal development and manifestation, the significance of sleep is often overlooked. However, sleep plays a crucial role in our ability to manifest our desires and create the life we envision. Here’s why getting quality sleep is vital for effective manifestation. 1. Clarity of Mind Adequate sleep enhances cognitive function, allowing for clearer thinking and improved focus. A well-rested mind can better visualise goals, set intentions, and make decisions aligned with your desires. When you’re tired, your thoughts can become muddled, making it difficult to maintain a positive and focused mindset. 2. Emotional Balance Sleep is essential for emotional regulation. Insufficient rest can lead to irritability, anxiety, and mood swings, which can hinder your ability to maintain a positive attitude. A stable emotional state is crucial for manifestation, as it allows you to stay aligned with your goals and remain open to opportunities. 3. Heightened Creativity Sleep fosters creativity and problem-solving abilities. When you’re well-rested, your brain can connect ideas and concepts more effectively. This creativity can be instrumental in brainstorming ways to achieve your goals and finding innovative solutions to challenges that arise on your manifestation journey. 4. Intuition and Insights During sleep, especially in the REM phase, your subconscious mind is highly active. This is the time when your mind processes experiences, emotions, and ideas. Many people report having insights or creative solutions during or after sleep, making it a valuable time for manifestation. Keeping a dream journal can help capture these insights, linking your dreams to your goals. 5. Energy and Motivation Quality sleep replenishes your energy levels, which is essential for taking action toward your goals. When you’re well-rested, you’re more likely to feel motivated and enthusiastic about pursuing your desires. Manifestation often requires action, and sleep provides the energy needed to stay proactive. 6. Stress Reduction Sleep helps reduce stress levels and lower cortisol, the stress hormone. High levels of stress can create resistance to manifesting your desires. By prioritizing sleep, you can cultivate a more relaxed state, making it easier to attract what you want into your life. 7. Alignment with Your Intentions When you sleep, you have the opportunity to set intentions or affirmations that align with your desires. Practicing visualization or repeating affirmations before sleep can reinforce your goals in your subconscious mind, promoting a deeper alignment with what you want to manifest. Tips for Improving Sleep for Better Manifestation Establish a Bedtime Routine : Create a calming pre-sleep routine to signal your body that it’s time to wind down. This can include reading, meditating, or gentle stretching. Limit Screen Time : Reduce exposure to screens at least an hour before bed. The blue light emitted by devices can interfere with your natural sleep-wake cycle. Create a Comfortable Sleep Environment : Ensure your bedroom is conducive to sleep—dark, cool, and quiet. Practice Relaxation Techniques : Techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or progressive muscle relaxation can help ease your mind and prepare you for restful sleep. Keep a Dream Journal : Recording your dreams can help you identify patterns, insights, and inspirations that arise during sleep. Conclusion Sleep is not just a time for rest; it is a powerful tool for manifestation. By prioritising quality sleep, you can enhance your clarity, emotional stability, creativity, and energy—all essential components for successfully manifesting your desires. Remember, a well-rested mind and body are key to attracting the life you envision. So, embrace the power of sleep as an integral part of your manifestation journey! Other Posts You'll Love: 100 Affirmations for a Restful Sleep In the meantime keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • How to Use Sage Effectively - To cleanse your Aura or Space

    I'm an avid sager. There I said it. Like a good cup of tea solves everything . A good old sage cleanse can really sort everything . I live by this. Smudging or cleansing can transform a space and the direction you're going in or not. If you are feeling stuck. If things aren't going right. If you're feeling off. I will tell you this here now. A sage cleanse should be the first thing I would recommend for you to do. Mixing up the energy of a space or the energy field around you is the first thing you can do to help yourself. I can tell when friends are in need of a good old saging. I just want to grab my stick and go to work on them. Whether it's themselves or their environment: their house / space. I can see it from a mile off. And I can feel stagnant or stuck energy. I see aura's you see so I can see when the energy field of a person is dim, sluggish or has holes in it. Or when they have blockages and really just need to STOP EVERYTHING they are doing and sage cleanse. It's easier with friends. I wish I could do this to everybody in the whole world. The world would be a better place. In the past I'd never say anything like this because I wasn't so confident in who I was. My general witchyness. And seeing people's Aura's and stuff, kind of made me feel like I was from another planet. I just felt weird. But now as I start to embrace this side of myself, I'm starting to speak 'my truth' as it's called in the spiritual market - and I'm here to help anybody that feels stuck. I started a YouTube Channel to start getting used to seeing myself, and seeing myself for who I really was (please go subscribe). I work with peoples energy every day as a transmitter and now doing posts like these, even if they only reach a few people, I'm here for it and will keep writing posts that will find the right people that need them. If this is you, read on and check out my video on how to sage cleanse. It's very simple to do. Sage cleansing or sage smudging are two of essentially the same thing. Think of literally cleansing an area. Cleaning the energy if you will. Neutralising it. That's what sage can do. You can then bring in other things that will increase the energy or vibration. Things for positivity. But let's start with the basics. A good old sage cleanse. Sage is a powerful tool to use to clear or cleanse the energy of a space. Smudging is the same thing - like smudging or rubbing out with an eraser or rubber if you're in the UK. They are both done in the same way. Different names to make it feel inaccessible to the normal person. What is a smudge? Am I doing it right? Is it the same as a sage cleanse? Argggh. If you smudge with sage then also smudge with Palo Santo for a double effect then wow ! Think of it this way: The Sage will neutralise the stagnant / negative energy whilst the palo will purify it with positive goodness. And if you're really into this, add selenite crystal to cement all of the good stuff. A trio of tools to work with clearing negative, bringing in the good. Sage cleansing is for everybody. And is something you'll want to do daily / weekly / definitely monthly if you are an energetic being (which we are) living in a world/universe that is built on nothing but pure energy (which we are). Are you starting to see how important these things can be. And to think they sounded so wacky to me back then. When life get's hectic and busy there is little time for ourself. Sitting quietly with ourselves to rebalance our energy. This is the same for the space we live in. Energy can become stagnant and stuck. It's not to say that the energy is negative, although negative energy is a 'thing', but more that the energy is just stuck. It becomes slow, laggy and still. You will notice how a Spring clean instantly transforms the feel of a room. Move a chair out of a corner, hoover behind it and get that energy moving. It works in the same way. Wafting energy around, clearing it and neutralising it to then bring in the good, then new, the fresh. You might look crazy wafting around like some kind of witchy wafter, but when you feel the benefits you stop caring. It can feel strange when doing something you've never done before , but the below videos will help you see ho easy it is to light the sage and start cleansing. How to Sage Cleanse? Step 1. Light the sage. The best thing about sage is that you can light it over and over again. I keep mine until they're tiny little stumps. But here we start with a full 15cm Californian white sage stick. That can be lit over a candle or a long match. Sage takes a little while to catch light so you'll need a long flame. Rotate the sage stick over the flame until it catches light, turning and rotating so it's caught. Step 2. Once caught extinguish / blow out. You don't want your stick on fire, it's the smoke that you'll use to cleanse. Don't go wafting a lit sage stick around - you'll set the house on fire or worse your hair - and that is definitely some bad energy right there. Step 3. Use the smoke to cleanse. With the sage stick smouldering a beautiful smoke. Use this smoke to cleanse the energy around your body or in a space. Move the smoke around the lengths of your arms, down the arm, down the next arm, over and around the head, down leg 1, down leg 3, around the torso. For a space you can move around walls, doors, corners, as though you are outlining the room. You don't have to cover every bit of space. The particles find their way to fill the whole room anyhow. I'll do a full video of a typical body aura cleanse and space cleanse. Tip: carry a bowl around with you when cleansing a space as the sage will drop ash. Light - extinguish - use the smoke to cleanse. Why use sage? What is a sage cleanse? Who can use sage? What is energy? Why moving energy can help? When should you sage? Whenever and wherever you feel like you need to. Some examples of when you would want to sage cleanse Staying in a hotel room - sage the room. Other people have brought their energetic print into the room and whilst you're in this room you take on that energy. If you're sensitive you will feel it. Neutralise it. I travel with a stick of sage now. No lie, I have it in my bag like a lipstick. Then I whip it out quickly. Nobody even has to know. And we're going to London this weekend, staying over in hotel with the kids, watching Disney's Frozen at The Theatre Royal. You can bet your bottom dollar I'll be saging the hotel room before we move our energy in there. The bell boy doesn't need to know about it. It'll just happen discretely when Fletchy's around. Moving into a new home - sage the whole house. Open doors and windows. Sage doorways and the corners of the room. Outline the walls. You will neutralise the energy of the new home and make it ready for your family. Do this when tradespeople have been in too. Energetically speaking they bring all their shit into the space, theyre usually stressed out working to deadlines, managing multiple workloads and brigning all this into your space. Neutralise it. There might be money issues in paying them / or their own money issues from job to job. Just sage it. I recently had a friend that had money problems on a high pressured project but was mid way through a renovation project that had to be finished. Things were said between her builders and herself and some things not said - it doesn't matter the energy was still there. It was causing tension in the house. The first thing I mentioned for her to do was to flippin well sage that house after the builders had been in. She did. And was blown away by the changes. I was like derrr hello of course! But you only know what you know. You work with the energy first in a physical way. Saging is simple and perfect for doing this. Best of all we can all do it. You don't need to be witchy at all. When you've been out - sage yourself particularly important if you are an empath or sensitive to energy and vibrations (you'll know if you are). When someone has visited your house - sage it when they've left to dispel move anything they've brought in with them to get your space back to an equilibrium. Would you like to see a video of me doing a full body sage cleanse / or a full; house sage cleanse? Let me know in the comments. I hope you found this post helpful. Let me know in the comments if you found it helpful. In the meantime keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • An In Depth Look at Smudging with Palo Santo

    Palo Santo has extraordinary healing properties. It is known to enhance creativity, remove negative energy, purify spaces + bring love and good fortune. Commonly used to ease stress and has a purifying, cleansing effect on the body and mind. Palo Santo wood is used in aromatherapy, meditation, energetic purification of space (smudging). Especially good to use after a Spring clean of the home to get rid of stagnant negative energies. Light a stick of this magical beautifully scented natural healing wood and let the delicate smoke wander. How to use Palo Santo  Choose a stick of palo santo and hold one end over a flame (we use the flame of a lit candle) until it begins to burn. Stay 30 seconds with the flame as it takes. Remove from flame. Move the stick gently in a back-and-forth motion. Let the cleansing smoke rise through the air. Moving the smoke around until its restful scent fills the room. Use whilst intention setting, manifesting, meditating, healing, cleansing negative energy. Benefits of using Palo Santo include . Clears the aura . Purify's a space . Cleanses energy . Brings Love and good fortune Use your stick time and time again whenever you need to clear your energy.

  • My Home Made Eco-Friendly Palo Santo Insect Repellent

    Join me as I live a high vibrational life in Bali , ditching low vibrational chemical based products for the home and skin, for more natural, eco friendly alternatives. Many that you can make yourself from home. If you love this you'll my Eco Friendly All Purpose Kitchen Cleaner and my nourishing wonder oil. I'm also working on a natural sunscreen too. Eco-Friendly Palo Santo Insect Repellent Recipe that works! I'm road testing this one out in Bali: 2 kids, 2 adults and so far... so good! Ingredients: 10-15 drops of Palo Santo essential oil 2 tablespoons of witch hazel or vodka  (as a natural preservative) 2 tablespoons of carrier oil  (such as jojoba oil or almond oil) 2 tablespoons of distilled water or kangan Optional : 5-10 drops of other essential oils (like citronella, lavender, or eucalyptus) for added effectiveness and scent. Instructions: Prepare the Bottle : Use a clean spray bottle, preferably glass, to avoid any chemical reactions with plastic. Combine Ingredients : In the spray bottle, add the witch hazel or vodka . This helps to preserve the mixture and ensures the oils blend well. Next, add the Palo Santo essential oil . If you’re using additional essential oils, add them now. Pour in the carrier oil  to help dilute the essential oils, making them safe for skin application. Finally, add distilled water  to fill the bottle. Mix Well : Close the spray bottle and shake well to combine all the ingredients thoroughly. Label the Bottle : Label your insect repellent for easy identification. Include the date you made it. Usage : Shake the bottle before each use to ensure the oils are mixed. Spray the repellent on exposed skin, avoiding the face and sensitive areas. Reapply every few hours as needed, especially if you are sweating or after swimming. Storage : Store the insect repellent in a cool, dark place to maintain its effectiveness. Tips: Conduct a patch test on a small area of skin to check for any allergic reactions. Keep the repellent away from pets and children unless properly diluted and advised. Use this repellent outdoors or in areas where insects are prevalent for maximum effectiveness. This natural insect repellent harnesses the pleasant scent of Palo Santo while effectively keeping bugs at bay, making it a great eco-friendly alternative to commercial products! I hope you found this post helpful. Let me know in the comments if you found it helpful. In the meantime keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • My Eco-Friendly Homemade Kangen Water Cleaning Spray

    Eco-Friendly Homemade Kangen Water Cleaning Spray for kitchen / bathroom / all purpose / everything / the world! My friend has a Kangen Water machine and it's so good. I'm seriously interested in getting one for myself once we have our permanent base in Bali. A perk of being a friend of someone that sells these machines, is that she let's me fill up my re-fillable cleaning bottles from her machine to make my own eco friendly cleaning sprays. This ones so easy and works - that I wanted to share on the blog for anybody that's wanting to ditch the chemicals. But doesn't want to pay through the nose for fancy eco sprays. So lets' dive in to my versatile spray that will keep you coming back from more. You'll never buy chemical based cleaning stuff again! Use as an all purpose cleaner to get your home sparkling fresh. Add a few drops of your favourite essential oils to make your home smell divine. I love the positivity of palo santo. Open the windows, do a sage cleanse and wipe skirting boards down and door frames to freshen up the whole room and rid the room of stagnant energy. Kangen Water, known for its alkaline properties, can be a great base for a cleaning spray. Here's a simple recipe to create an eco-friendly cleaning spray for your kitchen worktops using Kangen Water. Kangen water can be beneficial for cleaning for several reasons: Alkalinity : The higher pH of Kangen water can help break down acidic stains and grime, making it effective for cleaning surfaces. Natural Degreaser : Alkaline water can help emulsify fats and oils, making it easier to clean greasy kitchen surfaces and cookware. Non-Toxic : Kangen water is free from harsh chemicals, making it a safer option for households, especially with children and pets. Enhanced Absorption : The smaller water clusters in Kangen water may help it penetrate surfaces better, improving cleaning efficiency. Versatility : Kangen water can be used on various surfaces, including countertops, floors, and appliances, making it a multifunctional cleaning solution. Eco-Friendly : Using Kangen water reduces the need for commercial cleaning products, leading to less chemical waste and a lower environmental impact. Ingredients: 1 cup Kangen Water (strong alkaline water) 1 cup distilled white vinegar 10 drops of essential oil (such as lemon, tea tree, or lavender for antibacterial properties) A clean spray bottle Instructions: Combine Ingredients : In a bowl or directly in the spray bottle, mix 1 cup of Kangen Water and 1 cup of distilled white vinegar. Add Essential Oils : Add 10 drops of your chosen essential oil to the mixture. I use Palo Santo - my all time fave smell. This adds a pleasant scent and enhances cleaning power. Mix : If using a bowl, stir the mixture gently. If in a spray bottle, cap it and shake gently to combine. Label : Use a label or marker to note the contents and date on your spray bottle. Use : Spray the mixture directly onto your kitchen worktops. Wipe down with a clean cloth or sponge. And because I can't get enough of the worktop spray. I made a floor one too that levaes floors sparkling, fresh and chemical free! Eco-Friendly Floor Cleaner Recipe This floor cleaner is safe for most surfaces and effective for regular cleaning. Ingredients: 1 gallon of hot water 1 cup of distilled white vinegar 1 cup of Kangen Water (strong alkaline water) 10 drops of essential oil (optional, e.g., peppermint or eucalyptus for a fresh scent) Instructions: Prepare the Mixture : In a large bucket, combine 1 gallon of hot water, 1 cup of distilled white vinegar, and 1 cup of Kangen Water. Add Essential Oils : If desired, add 10 drops of your chosen essential oil. This will provide a refreshing scent and additional cleaning properties. Mix : Stir the solution gently to combine. Mop the Floor : Dip a mop into the mixture, wring it out to remove excess water, and mop your floors as usual. Allow to Dry : Let the floor air dry. Enjoy the fresh, clean scent! Tips: Always test any cleaning solution on a small, inconspicuous area first to ensure compatibility with your surfaces. Store your cleaning spray in a cool, dark place to maintain its effectiveness. For added disinfecting power, you can leave the vinegar out and add 2 tablespoons of baking soda to the floor cleaner (mix well) for a bubbly reaction that enhances cleaning! I can't take full credit for these recipes as my friend passed them on to me. But I love them and they're too good to keep to myself now that I've found them! These eco-friendly cleaning solutions are not only effective but also safe for you and the environment. Enjoy your clean kitchen and floors! I hope you found this post helpful. Let me know in the comments if you found it helpful. In the meantime keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • How to Meditate: The Complete Beginner's Guide

    In this deep beginners guide, we’ll be looking at the benefits of meditation, the various techniques and approaches to meditation, sharing advice on how to build a regular meditation practice, answering questions that beginners often have—and more! I'm a Manifestation Coach and show others how to manifest their dream life. But if you are not living from the heart space, manifestation get's way harder. Especially in our busy modern life (that has been created this way by design to take us away from our divine power - more on this another day). The best way to get back to living from the heart space and living a high vibrational life is through meditation. Everything material that we have in the physical life is the result of our subconscious thoughts and beliefs. Meditation is the number one way to recode those beliefs and get a handle on our mind thoughts, which quite frankly are running peoples lives (and for many that I speak to, this is not in a good way). Meditation is the number one thing we should all be doing, incorporating it into our daily lives for mental health, happiness and fulfilled life. Then of course the crazy magical stuff (or not so cazy) of manifesting, wealth creation, abundance in every single area of life and so on. But are we? I can't tell you how often I fall off the meditation wagon too. From being too busy, too distracted, my mind wants to take over running the show... CONSTANTLY. Only in February this year did I visit a Shaman Healer in Bali and one of the first things ha said to me when he held my hands and sensed my energy was 'you need more meditation' (I knew this of course, I always need more meditation), but I was doing very well at this time mentally so to speak. As we finished up after an amazing sunrise yoga session of the rice terrace in Ubud, his parting message to me as he squeezed my hands was 'if there is one thing that you do for yourself please meditate more.' with that he was gone. And I of course, knew what I needed to do. I'll be spending the next few months working on the meditation section of this blog , because I think I can help people in this area of life. It's something that so many people struggle with but it doesn't need to be. So let me know what you NEED . I took his advice and implemented it. From there my life flow became immeasurably better. Things flowed and happened. I moved to Bali. The 'stuckness' that I was feeling, the difficulty I'd been having in manifesting (which is not good when this is WHAT YOU DO) all clicked back into place again. This is no surprise for me, it's always this way, but I'm always surprised at my ability to stop doing my daily meditation. It's madness to me. And that's the madness of the mind, the pull of the matrix that somehow pulls me back to laziness. For it knows how powerful we are when we come back to our inner source. So it does everything it can to take you off course. So please, with our good friend, the Shaman's knowledge, if there is one thing that you do for yourself in 2024 and beyond is - Meditate more! Not in how long, but frequency... how often should you meditate? Prioritise your meditation practice as the first thing in self care, self love , project you! Also, I've started a new YouTube channel - which is going to cover all of these kinds of things (it doesn't right now but I absolutely intend to start sharing more about my personal journey with working with the Quantum Field, raising our vibration, changing our frequency, manifesting and all matters of self love, healing trauma and 3d to 5d awakening and transcending. As this has been the journey I've been on these last 4 years. It has changed mine and my family's whole life. It's been Too personal - up until now- to write about or do videos about - but I'm ready to open up now. In the aim that I help others in their own healing and growth journey. This is my life's purpose now. So please if you can, give my channel a subscribe so I know people want more of this stuff. If I don't grow then I know people don't really want it and I can concentrate on other things that will help. So let's jump right in to this deep beginners guide To Meditation. What we'll cover (quick links to get you to your chosen section fast): What is Meditation? How To Meditate? Why Meditate? The Proven Benefits of Meditation Getting Started with Meditation The FREE 3 Day Meditation For Beginners Course Tips for a Successful Meditation Practice Conclusion We’re also working on a range of FREE beginner meditations for you to use for you journey into your meditation practice. Specifically aimed at beginners. As this is the most common area that we get asked about on our blog. So if this is you... hang tight we're getting stuff uploaded. Meditation is a powerful practice that can help reduce stress, improve focus, and enhance overall well-being (so many health benefits), but it's the key to opening the third eye and connecting to your spiritual gifts, astral projection and a whole host of 'out of this world' energies that are there to be tapped into (but all this for another day). This guide is specifically for you if you are a beginner & feel stuck. I hope this help you. If you're new to meditation, you might feel completely overwhelmed by the amount of information on the internet and the various techniques and approaches to meditation. And I completely 'get it' Don’t worry! This beginner’s guide will walk you through the essentials to get started on your meditation journey. Even if you have a busy mind that's constantly racing... this is especially for you. I was you! I still am on my crazy days and I always have these beginners meditations to fall back on when my body and mind just isn't in flow. Stick around. One thing is for sure: meditation is something we should all be doing. And if you listen to what your body is really saying, you'll know. Now is the time to begin a meditation practice or level up if you've been struggling with focusing during meditation. What is Meditation? Meditation is a practice that involves training your mind to focus and redirect your thoughts. It can be a way to achieve a state of relaxation, gain insight into your thoughts and emotions, and cultivate a sense of inner peace. There are many forms of meditation, but they all share the common goal of fostering mindfulness and awareness. How To Meditate? You may have already heard about the benefits of meditation from friends, the internet and wider world. Perhaps you’ve already been thinking about how to incorporate meditation into your daily life but haven’t quite got round to it yet. Or perhaps meditation is all completely new to you! Whatever your starting position, it’s great that you are here. I have so much to share, because I was exactly like you. Why Meditate? The benefits of meditation are numerous and backed by research. Some of the key benefits include: Reduced Stress:  Regular meditation can lower stress levels and promote relaxation. Improved Focus:  Meditation helps enhance concentration and attention span. Emotional Well-being:  It can improve mood and reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression. Better Sleep:  Many people find that meditation helps them fall asleep more easily and improves sleep quality. Enhanced Self-awareness:  It encourages self-reflection and a deeper understanding of yourself. The Proven Benefits of Meditation: There have been endless studies have added to the list of proven benefits of meditation for mental and physical health: A calmer, more stable and focused mind Improved sleep quality Reduced stress and tension Equanimity Enhanced self-awareness and improved self-image Increased feelings of love, gratitude and compassion Decreased levels of anxiety, depression and pain Enhanced emotional stability Increased confidence and motivation Physical health benefits, such as decreased blood pressure, improved immune health and reduced inflammation   The list goes on…and you don’t need to pick just one benefit. A regular practice may eventually impact all aspects of your mental, physical and emotional health for the better. While you might already start experiencing some benefits in the early days of practicing, meditation isn’t a ‘quick fix’. Consistency is key. With every day you decide to meditate, you get closer to a happier life. And this is something we should be prescribing to each other. A daily meditation time slot, where we go within to regain that lost connection to our energetic lives and the spiritual heart led side of us that is truly magical! The longer you wait to build new healthy lifestyle habits, the longer you miss out on living more fulfilled. So today is the day. Decide to put your wellbeing first. Set a reminder for your next mediation: right here, right now. As we get all of our meditations for beginners uploaded. It may be that you have become so busy minded, that jumping straight into a meditation just doesn't work for you. You maybe can't switch off or stuff just keeps popping into your brain / mind, causing you to just give up. If this is you, it's ok. There are things that you can do right now to improve your Mindfulness . I recommend you start with our FREE 3 Day Meditation Course For Beginners: Where you dedicate just 10 mins per day to your meditation journey to uncover the foundations of meditating. 3 Simple Practices to become more present over 3 days: A Body Scan for Beginners Video | A Beginners Guide To Becoming Aware (Self Awareness Of Your Body Breath) | Simply Being A Video for Beginners to Just Sit & Be. Getting Started with Meditation 1. Find a Quiet Space Choose a quiet and comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed. This could be a dedicated meditation corner, a cozy chair, or even a peaceful spot in your garden. 2. Set a Time Limit As a beginner, start with short sessions. Aim for 5-10 minutes. As you become more comfortable, you can gradually increase the duration to 20-30 minutes or more. 3. Choose a Comfortable Position You can sit cross-legged on the floor, in a chair with your feet flat on the ground, or even lie down if that’s more comfortable. The key is to keep your back straight and your body relaxed. 4. Close Your Eyes and Breathe Gently close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Inhale through your nose, letting your belly rise, and exhale through your mouth, allowing your belly to fall. Focus on your breath as it flows in and out. 5. Focus Your Attention As you settle into your breath, you may notice thoughts starting to arise. This is completely normal. Acknowledge the thoughts without judgment and gently guide your focus back to your breath. You can also choose a mantra, a word, or a phrase to repeat silently, helping you maintain your focus. 6. Be Kind to Yourself Meditation is a practice, and it’s important to be patient with yourself. If your mind wanders, that’s okay! Simply bring your focus back to your breath or your mantra. The more you practice, the easier it will become. 7. Ending Your Session When your timer goes off, take a moment to notice how you feel. Gently bring your awareness back to your surroundings. Open your eyes slowly and take a few deep breaths before standing up. Tips for a Successful Meditation Practice Consistency is Key:  Try to meditate at the same time each day to establish a routine. Use Guided Meditations:  If you find it challenging to meditate on your own, consider using our guided meditations available on YouTube. Experiment with Different Techniques:  There are various meditation styles, including mindfulness, loving-kindness, and body scan. Explore different techniques to find what resonates with you. Join a Community:  Consider joining a meditation group or class, either in-person or online. Connecting with others can enhance your practice and keep you motivated. Conclusion Meditation is a journey, not a destination. Start with small, manageable steps, and over time, you’ll likely find that your practice deepens. Embrace the process and allow yourself to grow and change along the way. With regular practice, meditation can become a valuable tool for enhancing your life and cultivating a sense of peace and gratitude. Happy meditating! In the meantime Tell me what it is you struggle with in meditation? Is it a racing mind? Is it finding the time to meditate. Is it not knowing how to do it? Or are you advanced and having trouble with Astral Projection or protecting energy from entities? Let me know in the comments below. Other Related items you may be interested in: Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • Best Yoga Poses for Activating the Pineal Gland (Third Eye)

    These are The Best Yoga Poses for Activating the Pineal Gland (Third Eye) The pineal gland , often referred to as the "third eye," is linked to intuition, spirituality, and awareness. Certain yoga poses can help stimulate and activate this gland, enhancing its function and promoting mental clarity. Here are some effective poses to incorporate into your practice: 1. Child’s Pose (Balasana) Benefits:  Calms the mind, promotes relaxation, and helps release tension in the neck and shoulders. How to do it: Kneel on the floor, sitting back on your heels. Lower your torso forward, resting your forehead on the mat. Stretch your arms forward or alongside your body. Breathe deeply, focusing on the space between your eyebrows. 2. Downward-Facing Dog (Adho Mukha Svanasana) Benefits:  Energizes the body, calms the mind, and improves circulation to the brain. How to do it: Start on all fours, with hands shoulder-width apart and knees hip-width apart. Tuck your toes and lift your hips up and back, straightening your legs. Press your heels toward the floor and relax your head between your arms. Hold for several breaths, focusing on your breath and the space at your third eye. 3. Forward Fold (Uttanasana) Benefits:  Encourages introspection, calms the nervous system, and increases blood flow to the brain. How to do it: Stand with your feet hip-width apart. Inhale and reach your arms overhead, then exhale and fold forward, bending at the hips. Let your head hang heavy and hold your elbows if comfortable. Stay for several breaths, relaxing into the pose. 4. Eagle Pose (Garudasana) Benefits:  Enhances focus, concentration, and balance, activating the third eye. How to do it: Stand tall and shift your weight to one leg. Cross the other leg over the standing leg and wrap it around. Cross your arms at the elbows, bringing palms together. Hold for several breaths, then switch sides. 5. Bridge Pose (Setu Bandhasana) Benefits:  Opens the heart and throat chakras, promoting a sense of connection and awareness. How to do it: Lie on your back with knees bent and feet hip-width apart. Press your feet into the mat and lift your hips towards the ceiling. Clasp your hands under your back or keep them at your sides. Focus on your breath and the third eye area, holding for several breaths. 6. Cobra Pose (Bhujangasana) Benefits:  Stimulates the spine and opens the heart, enhancing awareness and energy flow. How to do it: Lie on your stomach with hands under your shoulders. Press into your palms, lifting your chest off the ground. Keep your elbows close to your body and gaze slightly upward. Hold for a few breaths, focusing on the third eye. 7. Seated Forward Bend (Paschimottanasana) Benefits:  Promotes introspection and relaxation, calming the mind and enhancing focus. How to do it: Sit with legs extended straight in front of you. Inhale, reaching your arms overhead, and exhale as you fold forward, reaching for your feet. Relax your head towards your knees and hold for several breaths. 8. Meditative Postures (Sukhasana or Padmasana) Benefits:  Cultivates a sense of peace and awareness, directly connecting with the third eye. How to do it: Sit comfortably with your legs crossed (or in lotus position). Rest your hands on your knees or in your lap. Close your eyes and focus on your breath or the space between your eyebrows. Meditate for several minutes. Tips for Enhancing Your Practice Breathe Deeply : Focus on your breath in each pose, allowing for deeper relaxation and connection. Practice Mindfulness : Pay attention to sensations in your body and cultivate awareness of your thoughts. Regular Practice : Incorporate these poses into your routine consistently for the best results. As Si is working through his yoga training , we're working on creating some pineal gland flows that we use at home that you may like to try on your own pineal health and wellness journey. Video's where we break down each pose and show how to correctly enter the pose and work through it, working up to the full Yoga for Pineal Gland flow. Yoga for Pineal Gland flow Insert Video here soon Individual yoga pose videos for each asana Insert here soon. Add to each asana page from index. Conclusion Practicing these yoga poses can help activate and decalcify the pineal gland, promoting clarity, intuition, and spiritual awareness. As always, listen to your body, and consider combining your yoga practice with mindfulness and meditation for optimal benefits. Happy practicing! Other Pineal Gland Items you may be interested in: Don't forget to keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you.  I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

  • The Asana's | Yoga Position - Salabhasana | Locust Pose

    Salabhasana, also known as the Locust Pose, is a powerful backbend that complements the forward bend of Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose). Salabhasana targets the lower waist-down region. Cheat sheet for the Locust Yoga position: Here’s how to perform Salabhasana in both variations (full and half): How to Perform Full Salabhasana | Locust Pose: Getting Into Position: Lie face down on the floor, resting on your stomach. Stretch your arms backward, close to your thighs, and keep your legs straight. Make fists with your hands and bring them together beneath your thighs, wrists touching. The Steps: Inhale slowly and deeply through both nostrils. Retain your breath and lift your head, straightening your neck. Place your chin on the floor (you can use a folded towel for comfort). Tighten both legs and lift them as high as you comfortably can. Keep your knees straight; do not bend them. Maintain this posture for 5 to 6 seconds. Exhale and slowly lower your legs back to the floor. Avoid dropping them abruptly. By the time your legs touch the floor, finish exhaling. Half Salabhasana: For the half Salabhasana, the position, breathing, and body conditioning are the same as in the full Salabhasana. The only difference is that you lift one leg at a time. Alternate lifting your legs. Practice: Begin with three rounds on the first day. Do not exceed four rounds. Beginners should practice the half-locust posture before attempting the full version. Salabhasana / Locust Pose Benefits: Organ Activation: Salabhasana stimulates the kidneys, liver, pancreas, and abdominal area. Digestive Health: It helps alleviate constipation, indigestion, wind troubles, dysentery, diarrhoea, acidity, and gastrointestinal disorders. Spinal Flexibility: Salabhasana brings flexibility to the cervical (upper back) region. Lower Back Strength: It strengthens the lower back. Improved Blood Circulation: The pose enhances blood supply to the spine and upper body. Remember to practice mindfully and enjoy the benefits of Salabhasana! See the full index of yoga poses for step by steps on each hasana. Don't forget to keep up with our daily updates on social media below. Follow us on Instagram: On YouTube: And always leave a comment below if this page has helped you. I only write and share stuff on the blog to help you. So let me know. Does it help? Did you get something from it? And what do you want to know going forward? I am at your service, Fletchy McFletchface xx

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