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DefiSi - Digital nomad Dad Bali

A Section on the Blog For Dads. Men. boys stuff.

 

Hi I'm Si.

Hands on Dad of 3.

DJ . Host of THE GOOD HOUSE VIBES RADIO SHOW - Hear some mixes on Soundcloud

Model (after being a child burns survivor) represented by Ugly Models

Avax Artist In Resident

Yoga lover

Wearer of snazzy clothes

Loves a pint.

Deeper: on an awakening journey learning about the energy I've held and been aware of my whole life. The deeper meaning as to my mission on Earth. Activating this light for the better of those around me + wider, which I've always done without knowing. It's about activating and remembering to help raise the vibration of Mother Gaia + humanity to get to where we are meant to be.

 

On the blog I post content generally about the things I like: Old Ibiza, mens health, dad life, fitness, tattoos, street art, crypto - defi, living sustainably, self development, divine masculine + raising boys to support their Goddesses... and I will mention 90's house music at any opportunity. 

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Be Nothing Like
An invitation to remember who you are beneath everything you were taught.

I'm Clare, and I created Be Nothing Like as a space to explore consciousness, self-discovery and the strange, beautiful experience of being human. Because somewhere along the way, many of us learn who we're supposed to be — what to believe, how to behave, what success looks like, who we're allowed to become. But what if you questioned it all?

Be Nothing Like is an invitation to unlearn before you learn. To become more aware of the patterns, beliefs and identities you've inherited, meet the parts of yourself you've pushed away, become more present, explore energy and consciousness, and ultimately choose how you want to live.

I've created a map for that exploration — from Awareness, Healing and Shadow, through Presence, Energy and Identity & Creation, into Embodiment.

 

It isn't a path you have to follow in order. There is no finish line and no version of you that you need to become.

Take what you need. Explore what calls you. Come back when life takes you somewhere new.

 

Because the deeper you go, the less you're becoming someone else...

and the more you're remembering who you already are.

 

Come explore the map →

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